For the next couple weeks I’m going to try to be more true to myself. This is something I’m sure everyone has found to be hard, whether you bought a new shirt at someone’s recommending, and now it hangs in your closet because it isn’t truly your style, or you didn’t speak up when someone said something you find offensive, maybe even just spent the night watching a Netflix movie you didn’t like, but everyone said it was good. Too often who I am gets lost because of embarrassment, laziness and daydreams of being Zooey Deschanel. Moving to Florida has made it harder than ever to be true to myself, despite taking chances and spending lot of time alone. Around my family and close friends I don’t have to justify yourself (that much)., and I don’t need to explain my jokes or express my deep distaste in fish, and I definitely never have to worry how I’m coming off.
I’m going to be concentrating on some main areas and we’ll see where this developes:
Intellectual: I will be reading One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest (Ken Kesey) and maybe some beat lit. I’ll also stop wasting my hour commute to and from work mindlessly listening to pop music. Instead I’ll spend the time learning Norwegian. I know a little Norwegian (Jeg vet litt norsk), but I really want to know more and be able to talk in it with my uncles who speak more of it. Some day I hope to travel to Norway too, and it will help.
Disposition: When I’m upset or sad I tend to try an rationalize it, which sometimes makes it worse. I’m going to concentrate on acknowledging my mood for what it is and try to work with it in a reasonable way. I also think an important thing about being true to yourself is talking to people with confidence. Looking people in the eye and walking with a good posture.
Activities: I will be making a strong attempt to cultivate my hobbies instead of zoning out to whatever is on the TV. Some things I’m interested in are: drawing, painting, reading, listening to music, yoga, paddleboarding, paddleboard yoga (there is such a thing) and baking. I also really enjoy spending time with friends and traveling, and I’ll be able to do both when I visit my friends in Seattle a week from Friday.
If you have any suggestions or advice, I’d love to hear it.