When I was trying to figure out who I knew who epitomized positivity, I thought about the cheerleaders I’ve known, or my life-of-the-party friends, but instead, my long-time friend Ryan Wilkus popped in my head as the obvious choice. Ryan is a man who has always stayed true to his passions (and his friends), plus—to my knowledge—has never frowned. I thought I’d try to figure out what makes him so happy. My guesses were: fresh air (he is currently living in his tent down in Mankato during the weekdays), lots of musical stimulation or large quantities of Svetka.
EF (Me): How do you keep an optimistic attitude?
RW (Ryan Wilkus): It sounds cliché, but I try to not let the little things bother me and look at the big picture. I consider myself allergic to stress and therefore try to take a logical approach to managing the important things in my life and the things “I” can control. I am also just giddy about the cool adventures that are in my future.
EF: What activity makes you most happy?
RW: Currently its rock climbing. I never feel more alive like when I am scaring the crap out of myself. Not to mention, I love being outdoors because everything becomes simpler.
EF: Is there something that you thought would make you happy but it didn’t?
RW: Taking chances and putting your self out there is always prone to failure, but its only a failure if you don’t learn anything from it.
EF:How about something you thought would make you upset but actually put you in a better mood?
RW: I am often times a reserved person(recluse at times) but most of the times I decide to socialize it is more fun than I predicted.
EF:What was the happiest moment of your life?
RW: I don’t really have one happiest moment. I try to live day by day and enjoy all of them. But to be honest, this summer has been the best time of my life……..so far.
EF: Who do you most admire for having a positive attitude?
RW: My biggest influence lately is my friend Lizzy because she lives by the seat of her pants and her heart.
EF:Where do you want to be right now?
RW: In the mountains.
EF: If you were going to the electric chair, what would be your final meal?
RW: My fathers homemade pronto pups and a glass of 1919 root beer.
EF: Who do you admire most in the area of music?
RW: Derek Trucks. He is one of the most amazing guitarists.
EF: In the area of design?
RW: Mother nature, Nikola Tesla, Frank Loyd Wright. Too many cool designers to list.
EF: What’s your dream job?
RW: An audio electronics engineer designing any kind of audio equipment. Or a mountaineering guide…….who knows maybe both.
EF: What would you tell the 12-year-old you?
RW: Don’t stop exploring!
EF: If you could give anyone advice, what would it be?
RW: Live the way that makes you the happiest. Then it will be a life not wasted.